To prepare for anal sex, you need to immediately understand what style will be discussed:
- stimulation with a finger;
- stimulation with an anal plug;
- stimulation with a vibrator;
- stimulation in the style of Fisting;
- or purely for sex with a partner.
After we understand why? And this is the main question for women, but I will write a separate post about it. Today we go to life hacks and typical myths.
For smooth preparation and ideal passing it is necessary to know the following:
Anal sex is pleasant to very few people from the first time, it is not accidental, because if the partner decided to have anal sex today without preparation and foreplay he will be disappointed. It HURTS of course it hurts, what the pain? And from the fact that he does not understand technically how to do it. Look. Here’s the structure of the rectum, Yes, Yes, we not in medical University, but you want to understand the process, right?
Here is an anus, he’s got a sphincter which is a muscular ring. It is a circular muscle, its main task is obtrusive. And when we abruptly, enter something, no matter the penis tube or a finger is going to hurt you. There are too many sensitive areas and blood supply in it. But if you shift the focus, for example, to have vaginal sex, make anilingus or oral sex, as they say, to shift the emphasis on strong excitation of the partner, it will be much easier to enter. The anus is easily relaxed with gentle treatment. Sometimes quite a few times to stretch the anus and it is already easier passes the finger. So, the structure of the rectum is s-shaped, which means that a little by stimulating it with a finger, it will be a little straightened and if you enter the penis under a slope, roughly speaking focusing on the navel of the partner will not hurt.
What if you feel your rectum is full?
I understand that for you it is a gesture of some sort, but it’s real sex. Asked a question, get a competent answer. So, I am not a supporter of enemas with boiled water and daisies, but also I am very amused by men who recommend a partner to make a liter enema with manganese. Friends do not joke, anal sex in itself is a shock for her now, so we do not need excessive bullying, especially since it is unusual for your partner after such an enema to have sex with the toilet, and not with you.
There are baby micro-enema Norgalax, there is a glycerin suppository, which is quick and easy, the main thing will gently help to clear it all out.
Wash out the microflora of the rectum is not necessary! But purely for hygiene, just wear a condom for anal sex, it is stronger than the classic and will always protect you from sexually transmitted infections.
If you are a supporter of enemas, then do not part, take a volume of up to 300 ml, liberally lubricate it with vaseline, and not before sex, you should be sure that “in Baghdad, everything is calm.” At least 50 minutes. Not earlier.
You two must be understanding partners!
Here I mean, that partner can stop on every stage, even not bringing process until sex. For today it is enough, do not edify on the partner, she is a living person. Often she does not believe that it is possible to derive pleasure from it. And from how gently and carefully you will stimulate it will be known whether the continuation of this story or not. Therefore, a smooth massage of the anus, in parallel with oral caresses will show her that it is very pleasant. You should not force the partner to suffer, the pain will not pass in such pressure.
If a woman is sensitive she will tell you, distract her, stimulate the clitoris or Breasts, make a parallel, let her take a break from this zone. Don’t forget to BREATHE! It’s very important not to clench your fist.
There are opinions that to prepare for anal sex take a week to stick to a diet number 3, you Google, this very light style of food.
I’m afraid I’ll grease my partner! Oh, no!
Let’s be honest and competent, in physiology the rectum is filled at the time of emptying, this will be confirmed to you and the doctor. You can enter the finger itself and make sure to the intestine filled with masses is very difficult to get, except that it will be a hard long Fisting. The rectum is not as sensitive as the anus, in fact, when Fisting, you can cause injury, which we learn after, up to tears. But I think those who practice are savvy and understand the process.
It is unlikely that you want to be emptied on the partner, you will have time to run to the toilet only if you do not have a rigid disorder. Sperm is also a highly irritating factor after the partner ejaculates in you it is quite normal to run to the toilet because of urges.
Attention!
All who wish to practice it, visit a proctologist, even before the first time, especially girls after childbirth! You can severely aggravate the situation and even injure the part of the intestine that goes beyond the anus.
What do you need to prepare for anal sex?
Lubricant for anal sex water-based take for toys, for the penis, is better to take silicone. I am not a supporter of lubricants with analgesic effect, can freeze feelings, then sitting in the dressing room and weep and sob from the pain and cracks.
Therefore, all possible extracts of jojoba, cloves and other things that will help, and anal lubricants have an antibacterial effect it is very convenient, they create a protective film. Provide long-lasting glide. NO SALIVA!!!! Forget it!
You can start training with an anus massage in one day, then the introduction of a finger in parallel with sex, you can buy an anal cork flexible silicone, then move to the penis.
Do not chase trends, listen only to yourself. It’s not a one-time thing, someone takes months.
I am not sure that this is very harmful, but if every day, it may not be useful, 1-2 times a week is enough, and of course, if you have any uncomfortable feelings, consult a doctor!
